Comments on: Was It a Boy? https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/ Movement, Color, Sound, Story Fri, 15 May 2020 22:39:11 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.3 By: kirkdaniel https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4447 Fri, 05 Jul 2019 12:36:41 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4447 In reply to Bertha.

Thanks for reading, and I appreciate your encouragement!

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By: kirkdaniel https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4446 Fri, 05 Jul 2019 12:36:07 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4446 In reply to Regina S.

You are so right, Regina. There are still times that I ask my self, Will people really believe me? Thank you for taking time to read and for your kind words.

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By: kirkdaniel https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4445 Fri, 05 Jul 2019 12:34:43 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4445 In reply to Anonymous.

I hope more people will be strengthened to speak out. Thanks for reading.

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By: Bertha https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4444 Fri, 05 Jul 2019 05:07:31 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4444 Thank you for speaking on this subject, Mr Daniel. Please keep writing.

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By: Regina S https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4443 Fri, 05 Jul 2019 05:02:49 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4443 It’s terrible that this happened to you Kirk. Thank you for being brave about sharing what happened to you. It’s hard for men to share abuse like that because people don’t think it happens to them. May the Lord continue to help you heal.

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By: Anonymous https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4442 Thu, 04 Jul 2019 20:57:57 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4442 Very well done my prayer is people keep writing and sharing we can’t keep silent anymore

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By: kirkdaniel https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4441 Thu, 04 Jul 2019 20:13:27 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4441 In reply to joy*full.

Thanks for reading.

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By: kirkdaniel https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4440 Thu, 04 Jul 2019 20:12:57 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4440 In reply to Dorcas.

Thanks, Dorcas. Men don’t always know how to deal with the trauma of childhood sexual abuse. They are certainly less vocal about it than women are (even though it is extremely painful and difficult for women), and perhaps more greatly confused by it. Part of this is cultural. Men are expected to be strong, less emotional, and invulnerable. It is hard for male survivors to address the fallout from abuse. Having people such as yourself come along side of us and enter into our world of hurt is priceless. And much appreciated.

God gave me the gift of words. And I am so glad that He did. They have been a pressure valve that has allowed me to release the pent-up pressure of decades. And, I hope they can breathe life into other men who have no words, so that they will know they are not alone.

And, yes, thanks to Lucinda for giving voice to all the silent men out there by publishing this post. God bless her.

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By: kirkdaniel https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4439 Thu, 04 Jul 2019 20:06:19 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4439 In reply to marianbeaman.

Thanks for your supportive words, Marian. And thanks for reading.

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By: marianbeaman https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-it-boy/#comment-4437 Thu, 04 Jul 2019 13:53:09 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=16357#comment-4437 I clicked “like” to indicate that I read this post, but I certainly would use a Sad and Angry emoticon to describe my feeling about such trauma inflicted here.

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