Comments on: Was I Good or Was I Bad? https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-i-good-or-was-i-bad/ Movement, Color, Sound, Story Fri, 22 Oct 2021 23:07:58 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.3 By: Rebecca Weber https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-i-good-or-was-i-bad/#comment-6829 Fri, 22 Oct 2021 23:07:58 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=20516#comment-6829 Lucinda, I love this perspective. Thank you for sharing!

]]> By: Lucinda J https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-i-good-or-was-i-bad/#comment-6782 Mon, 11 Oct 2021 13:10:32 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=20516#comment-6782 In reply to Sarah.

Trusting God to work out the details and doing the best you can in the moment sounds very wise, Sarah.

]]> By: Sarah https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-i-good-or-was-i-bad/#comment-6779 Sun, 10 Oct 2021 17:23:03 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=20516#comment-6779 You are not alone in wondering these things! I think them a lot (mainly the 2nd thought), especially because I was/am independent by nature, and the goals I had in mind for myself before marriage (i.e. career, accomplishments, etc.) had to go in order for me to be the happy wife I am, 13 years later.
Which sounds reasonable; but here is the rub: were those goals bad? No. Just going a different direction.
So was that direction bad? Were the things I practiced for and the ways I wanted to make a difference bad? Were my parents wrong to nudge me toward them? Was my childhood a big bad mistake? The truth is: NO.
But some days it is hard to reconcile that fact. It leaves me wondering, then WHAT was all that for?
And I am afraid that I may be parenting my sons ‘wrongly’. I must trust God to work out the details, and be the best mom I can be in the moment.

]]> By: Sarah Wiens https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-i-good-or-was-i-bad/#comment-6775 Fri, 08 Oct 2021 19:21:22 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=20516#comment-6775 I think the conclusion you came to is right. ;)

]]> By: KL https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-i-good-or-was-i-bad/#comment-6773 Fri, 08 Oct 2021 00:51:46 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=20516#comment-6773 Amen!

]]> By: Leanne Petre https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-i-good-or-was-i-bad/#comment-6772 Fri, 08 Oct 2021 00:33:34 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=20516#comment-6772 ]]> Sometimes I think, it’s not about me. I can get hung up on my own feelings and anxieties. But it’s not about me. It’s about God, and His plan. And that is good to know. 😊

]]> By: Loretta https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-i-good-or-was-i-bad/#comment-6771 Thu, 07 Oct 2021 19:30:37 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=20516#comment-6771 I love your conclusion! I think it is so right. I believe some day we will stand in awe of all God’s ways and purposes in our lives. We are here to bring glory to Him.

]]> By: Linus Snyder https://lucindajkinsinger.com/was-i-good-or-was-i-bad/#comment-6770 Thu, 07 Oct 2021 16:04:00 +0000 https://lucindajkinsinger.com/?p=20516#comment-6770 I love giving my little girl candy , even if she was bad , I like giving her good things and making her happy.
God loves is more than we love our children, and wants to give us good things no matter what we’ve done. I’m living proof of this.

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