I think a lot of things, actually. But I don’t feel particularly qualified to say them. The world is broad and experience varies widely. What do I have to qualify me to share an opinion but a single lesbian friend and the questions and confusion I waded through as a young person? That’s why, when […]
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When I became friends with Charlene, I did so for two reasons: I was intrigued by her and wanted to know her better. I viewed her as needy and wanted to help her. While both can be legitimate reasons to start a friendship, the second reason, when misused or mishandled, can end up damaging the
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I remember the moment Charlene told me she was bisexual (because that was easier than telling me she was lesbian, she said later.) Before Charlene, I had never been friends with a non-straight person. Learning her sexuality opened a world of questions in my mind. Is homosexuality wrong? If so, how is that fair when
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Charlene was in her early seventies when I knew her. While her quick wit and black hair made her seem young, her frailty and poor health made her seem very old. Her world had narrowed to a small house, a small yard, and tottering steps to doctor appointments and the grocery store. I never realized,
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I hated that Charlene smoked. I viewed her cigarettes as a personal enemy—a fiendish dictator who stole her freedom and her health. Some of the few harsh words I spoke to her were about her smoking addiction. The only time I refused to help her was when she asked me to buy her a pack
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